OCEAN EAGLE / PRIVATE COACHING
One-on-one coaching for when you’ve run out of places to turn.
I work with the 2% who are done pretending they’re fine and ready to surrender to a process. We meet one-on-one every week, and I coach you through it. If that’s you, let’s talk.
Featured on CBS Mornings | Endorsed by Kevin Harrington | 27 years sober | 50+ retreats led worldwide.
THE PROBLEM
You have everything you were told would make you happy, and you still feel like you’re drowning.
The anxiety won’t switch off. It’s there when you wake up and there when you try to sleep, and you can’t reason your way out of it.
You’ve lost the thread. Life happens to you now and you can’t get your hands back on the wheel.
Your body carries it. You’re tired and wired at the same time and you know you can’t keep running like this.
The fear about money sits in your chest, even on the days the numbers are fine.
You keep everyone else comfortable and abandon yourself to do it, and it wears you down.
From the outside it looks like success. Inside it feels like a mess and hollow,…you’re tired of pretending otherwise.
You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to the podcasts. You’ve attended the seminars. You’ve sat in retreats and healing circles. What you need now is someone who tells you exactly what to do, someone who walked the same road before you.
THE STORY
I’ve been where you are, and I found the way back to M.E.
Twenty-seven years ago I stood in front of a mirror at four in the morning and saw my father’s face looking back at me. That was the night I got sober. I attended over Six hundred and thirty AA meetings in the first year and I haven’t had a drink since.
I rebuilt all of it afterward, the company and the house and the marriage, the whole picture of a life people are told to want. Years later, lying on the floor and breathing, I finally understood that none of it had touched the thing that was actually broken. So I did the hardest work of my life to reach it. Then, I gave everything away and set out to help other people reach it too.
Early on, stuck and unable to surrender, a mentor walked me down to the water and told me to move the ocean. I said I couldn’t. He said, that is a power greater than you. That’s where the name comes from and it’s the whole lesson: you stop fighting the thing you were never meant to control, and you learn to breathe with it…to Be One With It!.
HOW IT WORKS
How the coaching works, week by week.
We meet every week and work one piece at a time. I give you something specific to do between calls, and I hold you to it.
01
We find the root
We go underneath the anxiety and the fear to find what’s actually driving them, then we work on that instead of the symptom sitting on top.
02
You write it down
I give you a deep-dive writing assignment, and we process it together out loud on your weekly call. This is where the work stops being an idea and starts to move.
03
You learn the tools
You start with the 20, twenty power breaths down to the lower belly. It gives you a way to catch the reaction before it runs you. From there we build a daily practice that’s yours.
04
You take ownership
I teach you to stay present and to own your emotions instead of getting run by them. You start choosing your response on purpose, in the moments that used to own you. Life by laser focused intentions.
05
You set boundaries and hold them
We cut the cord with the old story and set new boundaries. Then I teach you how to hold them when the people around you push back, because they will.
06
It becomes a way of life
You practice Surrender, Accept, Let Go, and Trust until they run on their own. Calm and patience become your baseline, and you start to intuitively know in your gut how to handle what used to baffle you.
OUTCOMES
What changes by the time we finish.
You stop reacting
The situations that used to send you spinning, you handle now, and you stay yourself while you do it.
Calm you can feel
A steadiness that actually holds. Dread stops being your default setting.
Your relationships shift
The people close to you feel the change in you. Not all of them will like it, because the people-pleasing and the co-dependency end here.
Work comes back into alignment
You stop deciding by the bottom line alone. You start asking whether a choice is right for you and the people around you, and whether it fits who you are now.
PRICING
WEEKLY ONE-ON-ONE COACHING
Private coaching, every week
$1,750/ month
A weekly 90-minute 1:1 call with me. Just you and me, doing the work.
A weekly homework assignment that carries the work between our calls.
A length that fits you. Some people need 5–10 sessions. Some need longer. We set it to what you actually need, not to a package.
Direct access to me between sessions for the moments you hit a wall.
First access to my in-person retreats, which I keep for private clients.
3 month commitment required
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GO ALL IN
Private in-person intensive
$2,000 / day + expenses
Consecutive days, in person, with a four-day minimum. For when you’re ready to do the deep work without stopping.
Ask about an intensive
I take a handful of private clients at a time, because I go all the way in with each one. Apply, and we’ll get on a call together.
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